But you can't keep bigots from being bigoted while talking about it.
K-Lo: you better tell your kid about "Gay-Americans". They're going to find out about it anyways. And the difference between telling them at 12 and them learning about it at 16 is 8 years of collegiate experimenting that you'll have to find out about the hard way.
And after you get done with that, start working on "Gay-Canadians".